Sir Jude's Household - Sweet Surrender
Raleigh, NC
Helpful Tips For Slaves
After several years online at various BDSM dating/social networking sites Sir Jude has learned that there are some very consistent issues that makes it difficult for Dom/mes to meet the right servant. Since the first email is the first impression it's vital to put your best foot forward and that seems to be one of the biggest issues that most Dommes are experiencing. We added this section as more recently posts, writings, and comments have come up often enough to warrant a section of it's own here.
Any slave (or even submissive) regardless of gender should use this section as a valued resource, which we will try to keep updated. Whether you are looking to serve in this household or someone else entirely these tips will help you make a good first impression.
How To Email A Domme - Sir Jude put together a basic template for a first email attempt.
Why Is It So Hard For Male Sub To Find FemDomme - I was following a thread on FetLife that was prompted by a user asking why it was so difficult for a submissive male to find a female Dominant. There were, of course, numerous responses, however I was particularly drawn to this one response and the poster was gracious enough to allow me to post it. Since there currently is no section for other people's writing right now I'm placing it here until I create a better location for it. I found this post especially enlightening and love the fact it's written by a submissive. I have provided the post, unedited and strongly advise any submissive/slave interested in increasing their chances at successfully finding "the one" for them to read it as it sheds interesting light on the topic.
Helpful Tips For Slaves - Prompted from a post in a group on FetLife to provide insight to unowned slaves who want to find the right owner. I have collected my response here and it's strongly suggested reading. Whether you are right for my household or not these are great tips to any would-be-slave so that they stand a better chance of success when they seek out an owner.